Dominance and submission – The Kiss – Ten Terrific Quotes

“Never close your lips to those whom you have already opened your heart.” ― Charles Dickens “No, I don’t think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That’s what’s wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows...

Sizzling Spicy Sexy Scandalous – SPANKING

Just the word itself!  Spanking!  Isn’t it somehow hypnotic?  What is that sparking desire so many of us have to be spanked?  Is it the adrenalin rush?  The heart pounding anticipation?  The overwhelming intimacy? What instrument of discipline will he use?  The...

The Bondage Of The Mind

When I awoke this morning, the poetic prose of the Mysterious Dom (see previous post – In The Dom’s Own Words) was floating through my mind, like a golden leaf hovering on a gentle breeze, then drifting to the ground on a cool autumn day.  When I am in the...

In The Dom’s Own Words

Sometimes, in the middle of a perfectly tedious day, there can come across your path, a touch of wanton wickedness.  An unexpected erotic jolt, that causes the sweet submissive’s butterflies to spring to life.  A deliciously decadent email popped into my inbox,...

LOVE, LUST AND D/s CHEMISTRY

Have you ever been so sexually connected to another, than you never wanted to leave the bed?  Is that chemistry?  Lust?  Is it the BDSMelement that strikes that chord?  The erotic Domination that sets your heart on fire? Are chemistry and lust the same thing?  Or is...

TIRED OF THE STEREOTYPES – ARE YOU?

Why do movies and television, more often than not, portray us (and by us I mean those involved in the D/s lifestyle) as damaged? Dominants, submissive women, those who enjoy spanking and bondage. Do you recall Secretary?  The movie starring James Spader?  If you...